Sukhi Ghuman

Let's Make 2012 an Epic Year!

2012-01-12T12:07:00.000-08:00

New Year’s Resolutions and goals are something we all tendto contemplate at the beginning of a new year. Some feel obliged to write downsomething… usually having to do with being more healthy and exercising.However, for the last few years my hubby and I have taken the time to reallythink about our goals for the new year, and we then send them to each other.This is our way of holding each other accountable to our goals and supportingone another.

I think this is a fabulous idea, and therefore I’m going totake it a step further and share my 2012 goals with all of you… therefore youtoo can hold me accountable and see how I’m doing.

2011 was a huge year for me. My husband and I moved into our own place indowntown Vancouver. I paid off half of my debts, continued to explore mybeautiful city, starting blogging for JugniStyle.com, assisted in the launch ofthe first ever Bhangra exhibit in Vancouver, helped coordinate the largestBhangra festival in Vancouver with VIBC, and I traveled through Spain andItaly. I was also diagnosed with an illness that took most of the year totreat, but I didn’t let that get in the way of me doing what I wanted to do.

Now for my 2012 Goals… don’t judge me, as they say you needto make realistic goals to make them count.

Exercise Regularly – By regularly I mean 3 times a week, Yoga, Pilates, Shredding, Dance & Weight Training. Also, I love biking in the summer.

Eat Healthy – I’m notorious for skipping out on breakfastand just having a cup of chai in the morning… I really want to focus on wakingup 10 min earlier each weekday and having a small breakfast before I rush outthe door… This in turn will help me speed up my metabolism which will help inmy overall goal of weight loss.

Loose Weight – Yes, every girl out there wants to looseweight, it just happens to be something that allows us to feel good aboutourselves… I've had a few issues with my Thyroid come up which has caused me to put on some weight, so I would be very happy with myself this year if I was able to loose10-15 lbs and tone up!

Blog Regularly – I want to commit myself to publishingbi-monthly posts on JugniStyle.com regarding fashion, arts, culture, food, and events taking place in Vancouver and monthly posts on my Photography blog at www.sukhighuman.ca

Professional Development – I’m so lucky to work at UBC. Oneof the perks of working there is the fact they provide you with tuitionwaivers, which means you can take courses for free. My first year at UBC Ispent learning the job, now I can focus on taking courses that will allow me toexcel at my job and building my portfolio. Also, being a free lancephotographer there is so much more I want to learn, so I’d like to take a fewmore workshops, specifically with a focus on lighting.

Volunteer – I strongly believe in volunteering to help makea difference in the community you live in. I’ve been blessed to be a Director,and Media Relations Manager of the non-profit organization, VIBC Society for seven years now. Ihope to continue to stay on and volunteer my services during the 2012 City ofBhangra Festival and to take on a few new projects that are starting to peak myinterest (Stay tuned).

Put down that Cell Phone– I find myself almost addicted tomy smart phone. When I’m not checking emails, tweeting or checking my news feedon facebook, I’m watching videos on YouTube, texting or playing Solitaire…(Iknow that sounds lame, but it’s one of my fave card games). This year I want tomake it a point not to be on my phone doing meaningless stuff. I want to spendthat time working on projects, catching up with friends, or spending QT with myhubby.

Support my Hubby – My hubby too is making his own set ofgoals for 2012. We also have some joint goals that we want to focus on thisyear. I want to be able to support him in his goals with encouraging words andhelp him track his progress. I think it’s also important we celebrate thesemilestones.

Spend Time With People I Want to Spend Time With – I hate tosay this, but I know a lot of people. There’s nothing wrong with that, howeverI believe spending quality time with the people that really mean something toyou is imperative, ie. Friends and Family. These relationships take work and one needs totake the initiative to make these interactions happen. I’m going to be more activein taking on that initiative.

Photography – A passion of mine, that has gone from hobby toa part-time profession. I would really like to dedicate more of my time to myphotography to continue to stay engaged. Photography allows me to be creative and this is one of my artistic outlets. My trip to Spain in 2011 inspired me…maybe that means I need to plan another trip? ;)

Travel – I get 6 weeks holidays, and my hubby only gets 3.Therefore planning our vacations together is going to take some work. Anotherthing is, because he’s just started a new job, he can’t take his 3 weeksvacation all together, which means 3 separate vacations. I’d like to takeanother 2-3 weeks to possibly leave the country and go somewhere else… we’llsee what’s in the cards.

Be Healthy – I’ve come across a few medical complications,and this year I really want to focus on getting healthy. I want to deal withwhat I need to deal with, get treated, and move on. I’d also like to startseeing a naturopath, eat super foods & take vitamins regularly.

Love – I want to keep doing the things that I love doing.Things that make me smile. Things that make me feel alive.

Bicker Less – My hubby and I have a great relationship,however we have a tendency to bicker like an old married, andwe’ve only been married for 2 years. I know this is normal, and not something we do in public however, 2012 is going to be the year we stopbickering and focus more on the loving.

Finances - I was very pleased on how my hubby and I managed our finances in 2011. 2012 is going to be the year we clear all of our debts (credit card/line of credits) and start saving for a down payment.

That's a lot of things to focus on 2012... but I feel they're fairly realistic goals. With your help and accountability, I'll surely accomplish them all. -SG

Declarations

2011-12-08T13:42:00.001-08:00

Reflecting while in San Sebastian, Spain - July, 2011

Life truly is too short... And maybe I'm feeling a little sentimental as I reflect on this past year.

Not many people know, but during this past year I was diagnosed with an illness that has taken me almost an entire year to fully diagnose and treat. A year later, I sit here reflecting on the two major surgeries I've had and my final treatment which consists of spending another 48 hours in isolation in the hospital.

It definitely has been an interesting year, and this year has surely opened my eyes. I've always been a believer that life is too short, and you have to make the most of it. Heck, my grade 12 year book entry read something like, "Live Each Day as If It Were Your Last." Little did I know, these words would come to move me in an entire different way 15 years later.

I now have a new found zest for life. I want to live in the moment, even more now than before. I want to be the person I've always destined to be. I want to truly appreciate all those in my life, and ensure they know how much they really mean to me.

A dear friend gave me these DECLARATIONS to read out loud on a daily basis as I celebrated my 32nd Birthday. They mean a lot to me, and I will continue to review them, until they're etched in me. A part of my being... as I know deep down... these declarations are what will set me free.

I open my heart and sing the joys of love.

Its okay to make noise. I express myself freely and joyously. I speak up for myself with ease. I express my creativity. I am willing to change.

I move beyond old limitations and now allow myself to express freely and creatively.

I lovingly release the past and turn my attention to this new day.

All is well.

Loving Life in Deliceto, Italy (Southern Italy in the Puglia Region), August 2011

Featured in Fashion Magazine

2011-10-18T22:24:00.000-07:00

Recently I was bestowed the honour of being included in Fashion Magazine's November 2011 Issue as a, "Patron Saint". I cannot describe what it means to me to be known as a woman in Vancouver who is shaping Canada's dynamic cultural scene for the next generation of arts lovers.

I love what I do and I wouldn't change it for the world. Thanks for recognizing my over 10 years of volunteer work with various arts organizations, especially the last seven years I've volunteered with the VIBC Society as a Board of Director, Media & Public Relations Manager, and Event Coordinator. I am so proud to be part of an organization that is changing the way people view Bhangra. It's not just Bhangra... it's an art form.

Sukhi meets Ash Kumar

2011-01-19T11:18:00.000-08:00

Recently I had an opportunity to meet the multitalented mehndi artist, Ash Kumar from the U.K. Take a look :)

M.A.C goes to Bollywood

2011-01-05T20:06:00.000-08:00

As South Asian women, we've struggled to find makeup that not only reflects our bold personalities, but also compliments our yellow undertones. Now, with M.A.C’s limited-edition Bollywood Collection, we can go from edgy to modern to au-naturel with this gorgeous line of make-up, perfect for our skin.

Known as the “Master of Modern Bollywood,” Mickey Contractor has contoured the cheeks of A-list beauties Aishwarya Rai, Shilpa Shetty, Priyanka Chopra and Slumdog Millionaire star, Freida Pinto. Contractor prefers to give his clients a more relevant and natural look, as opposed to caking on their makeup…and we admit it, we’ve all been guilty of that!

Mickey Contractor has been making Indian women feel beautiful for years, so it was no surprise when M.A.C came knocking on his door in 2004. He helped them launch the first M.A.C store in Mumbai, with the opportunity to create their first-ever tribute collection.

And now as the Director of Makeup Artistry in India for M.A.C., Contractor has developed a stunning 24-product palette with four new shades of concealer, glosses and a new Fluid Line in Siahi. Of course the collection also pays homage to Bollywood with eye shadows in Marvel, Saffron, Rani and Oomph; power blush in Gana and Sur; and lipstick in Mocha and Gulabi – yes Gulabi!

Also posted on www.jugnistyle.com

Winter ChickLit

2010-12-08T16:30:00.000-08:00

What are you planning on doing this holiday season?

Besides shopping, indulging in feasts, and spending time with loved ones, I'll have my nose deep in a good book. Here’s five of my 2010 must-reads that will inject a few more highs (and sighs), tears and laughter into your winter break.

Last Night at Chateau Marmont by Lauren Weisberger

It doesn’t get any juicier than Lauren Weisberger’s latest novel, Last Night at Chateau Marmont. Also, the author of, “The Devil Wears Prada” in this novel Brooke Alter is torn between her real life and her husband’s budding music career. The drama mixed with Hollywood celebrities takes you through the trials and tribulations of fame and the affect it has on one’s relationship.

The Carrie Diaries by Candace Bushnell

This utterly trashtastic read is a fascinating look into our dear Carrie Bradshaw’s senior year of high school. This prequel to “Sex and the City,” gives us a real glimpse of Carrie as a teenager. She’s vulnerable, rebellious, and labeled as a boyfriend stealer. Even though there’s no Mr. Big, you won’t want to put it down until you find out who Carrie meets in NYC.

Mini-Shopaholic by Sophie Kinsella

This laugh-a-minute story still proves you can be on fire, even six books into a series. The infamous Becky Bandon is now having trouble keeping her two-year old daughter under control and is attempting to implement a strict pocket money arrangement so she doesn’t spoil her child.

Secret Daughter by Shilpi Somaya Gowda

A native Torontonian, Shilpi’s debut novel explores the emotional terrain of motherhood, loss, identity and culture, witnessed through the lives of two families, one Indian, one American, and the daughter who binds them. A little more in-depth than our other picks, this fireplace page-turner is a fresh, vibrant voice portraying a heroine straddling two cultures.

The Only Way is Up by Carole Matthews

This eloquent, multi-layered story about love, loss, isolation and hope follows Lily and her husband Laurence. He’s lost his City job, the house and belongings have been repossessed, and Lily finds out the hard way who her real friends are. But then things turn around for the better and a new job give her the chance to return to the life to which she had become accustomed, but is this what Lily really wants?

Also posted on www.jugnistyle.com

Vancouver's Premier Film Festival

2010-06-07T09:18:00.000-07:00

The South Asian talent coming out of Vancouver has been incredible. South Asian singers, dancers, independent film makers, actors, writers, producers, television hosts... you name it, and they’re making a name for themselves on the West Coast. So it was only a matter of time before Vancouver played homage to the film industry with the very first Vancouver South Asian Film Festival, or VISAFF for short.

Vancouver based actress Agam Darshi and actor/writer Patricia Isaac are the brainchilds behind VISAFF. Their vision is to “bridge the gap” between South Asian talent and mainstream audiences and serve as a launching pad for integration through celebration and education. Not only will the festival incorporate feature films, shorts and documentaries, but it will also include music videos reflecting the growing independent movement of South Asian musicians from around the world representing genres of pop, rock, hip-hop, dance and more.

Here is a must-see, straight from the insiders.

KAVI

Kavi, is the 2010 Oscar nominated short film about a boy in India who wants to play cricket and go to school, but instead he’s forced to work in a brick kiln as a modern-day slave. Unsatisfied with his fate, Kavi must choose to either accept what he’s been told, or fight for a different life even if he’s unsure of the ultimate outcome.

Student Academy Award Winner, Gregg Helvey wrote, directed and produced “Kavi,” winning the 2009 Academy Award gold medal in the narrative category. Kavi was filmed entirely on location in India within seven days but took two and a half years to complete. Greg Helvey was so rattled by the thought of modern-day slavery which led him to create the 17 minute film that aims to raise awareness about this issue, which in turn would lead to action. For more info on Kavi visit http://www.kavithemovie.com/

The film festival runs on June 26 at Vancity Theatre. Order tickets and see schedules at http://www.visaff.com/

Also published on JugniStyle.com

a collaborative night of live art, music, wine and tapas

2010-06-04T09:49:00.000-07:00

My dear friend Jason Sarai had the brilliant idea of creating an intimate evening for his closest friends and clients by combining delicious tapas, live art and soothing music in a Gastown loft.

Despite the noise complaints, this was an amazing evening of meeting new people, trying new food and sipping on vino. Husband wife team, Randolph and Esther Celebrini were gracious enough to open their doors to the rest of us. Not only are these two the owners of The Loft - Studio Gallery but they were also our centre of attention.

Randolph Celebrini works as a sports physiotherapist by day and freelances as an artistic painter by night. Randolph created masterpiece after masterpiece right before our very eyes while his wife Esther played keys and sang her sultry jazz vocals. Amazing thing is, Esther's voice inspires Randolph's mesmerizing brush strokes.

Polenta Croquettes

Chef Gurj Dhaliwal

And no evening would be a hit without great food and wine. Hence, the reason my hubby Gurj Dhaliwal was called upon for his oh so delish tapas. Mumbai Meatballs, Polenta Croquettes, Masala Eggplant Roti Chips, Currey Chicken Lollipops were just a few of the mouth watering tapas... I know you don't need to tell me... I did good.

New and Old Friends

VIBC City of Bhangra Festival April 29 - May 8

2010-04-23T11:01:00.000-07:00

I have a vested interest in the VIBC Society, mainly due to the fact that this was a non-profit Society I started back in 2004 with a few friends. I am so proud to see where this non-profit volunteer run organization has come in the last six years. Never in my wildest dreams would I imagine the City of Bhangra Festival becoming the largest Bhangra Festival in North America. But indeed it has. So I encourage you all to come out and celebrate in this beautiful art form. From Salsa-infused Bhangra mash-ups to Bhangra inspired panel discussions, to free outdoor Bhangra concerts to the grand finale Coast Capital Bhangra Competition, there's something for everyone to enjoy.

City of Bhangra, North America's Largest Bhangra Festival

9 days of music, dance, and excitement from April 29 – May 8, 2010

Vancouver, BC – April 23, 2010 – Experience the sights and sounds of Bhangra when the streets come alive from April 29 – May 8 as Rogers presents the City of Bhangra Festival. The festival, organized by the Vancouver International Bhangra Celebration (VIBC) Society, encourages cultural exploration and community participation through a diverse series of events highlighting the Northern Indian art form of Bhangra.
"Each year we aim to push the boundaries about what Bhangra is and how it is performed,” says Sukhi Ghuman, Director of the VIBC Society. "This year we're celebrating our sixth year of operation. We're continuing to showcase events that bring Bhangra to an entirely new level. We’ve taken a form of dance and music created hundreds of years ago in celebration of the harvest in Punjab and brought it to Vancouver and made it accessible to people of all cultures."

Giberto Moreaux & Sal Ferreras

This year RePercussion is led by Sal Ferreras, music educator and producer who explores percussion and folk drumming, represented by a variety of cultures that make up Vancouver. This exhibition will include performances by a number of multicultural drum troupes and Bhangra dhol drums at the VOGUE Theatre.

Dance on the sidewalk and sing out loud at VIBC’s Downtown Bhangra. This is a free outdoor concert stage featuring wild dance routines, amazing bands and all the Bhangra you can handle, on the Georgia Street Plaza at the Vancouver Art Gallery. Lal Singh Bhatti and his band, San Francisco’s Black Mahal, are guaranteed to get the crowd grooving. With its unique blend of traditional Punjabi folk, funk and hip-hop, the resulting eight-member band has since exploded onto the international scene, capturing the attention of the BBC and Rolling Stone India magazine.

Bhangra Empire - Winners of 2009 Coast Capital Bhangra Competition

The festival concludes with eight of North America’s best Bhangra teams competing for the $5000 first prize at the Coast Capital Bhangra Competition at Queen Elizabeth Theatre. Look out for international Bhangra superstars, Nirmal Sidhu from the UK, Vancouver’s own En Karma and Punjabi pop artist hailing from Denmark Anita Lerche. International Bhangra teams will be flying in from Calgary, LA, San Francisco, New York, and Punjab, India.

VIBC Society 2010 Board of Directors
(Jag Rajwan, Mo Dhaliwal, Sukhi Ghuman, Opreet Kang, Karen Brar, Manpreet Dhillon, Harbir Toor)

VIBC Society

Since 2005, the not-for-profit Vancouver International Bhangra Celebration Society (VIBC) has presented events to entertain and educate all communities about Bhangra. The Society’s vision is to embrace the spirit of celebration, generosity and community that is Bhangra. The VIBC is dedicated to spreading the universal rhythm of Bhangra and welcoming people from all cultures to enjoy the beats of this beautiful art form.

Rogers Presents the 2010 City of Bhangra Festival

Event Listings

Thursday April 29: Opening Reception, a VIP cocktail reception with art, music & Bhangra
6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. at Vancouver Museum (by invitation only)
Saturday May 1: RePercussionn
Official Opening of Vancouver Asian Heritage Month
8:00 p.m. at the VOGUE Theatre
918 Granville Street Vancouver Tickets $18, http://www.ticketweb.ca/

Drums of the world come together as percussion meister Sal Ferreras and guests reveal another side of Vancouver’s heartbeat. Percussion and folk drumming traditions from Asia, Africa and Europe blend with Punjabi folk dancers as your musical guides for exploring the city’s rich multicultural fabric.

2009 DISorientieng Bhangra (Ashveer Singh, and Anne Murphy, UBC)

May 5 - 8: Disorienting Bhangra, British Bhangra: Pasts, Presents and Futures?
University of the Fraser Valley, UBC Asian Studies, UBC Robson Square, by donation

Is Bhangra a force for social change? How does caste influence the music? How has British Bhangra transformed traditional folk Bhangra? These questions and more will be explored by Rajinder Dudrah (University of Manchester), Manjot Bains (York University), Gurp Sian (South Asian Arts) and chaired by Anne Murphy (Assistant Professor and Chair, UBC)

Black Mahal from San Francisco

Friday May 7: Downtown Bhangra, an outdoor concert featuring International bands and local dance groups
5:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m. at the Vancouver Art Gallery - Georgia Street Plaza, FREE

Brace yourself for wild dance routines, amazing bands and all the Bhangra you can handle! Featuring Bombay Sapphire, Punjabi Cultural Arts Centre, Raju Johal, Denmark’s Anita Lerche and San Francisco’s Black Mahal.

Friday May 7: Delhi 2 Dublin Presented by Live Nation
9:30 p.m. at the Commodore Ballroom
868 Granville Street, Vancouver Tickets $19.50, http://www.livenation.com/

Delhi 2 Dublin’s unique style of live electronica is the ultimate transcultural music experience. In addition to making great music, they are just as famous for their incredibly high-energy stage performance, which has been described as a human fireworks show.

Anita Lerche

Saturday May 8: The Coast Capital Bhangra Competition
Featuring eight of North America and India’s top dance teams.
6:00 p.m. at the Queen Elizabeth Theatre, Tickets $25 - $55 & VIP, http://www.ticketmaster.ca/

Bhangra teams from LA, San Francisco, New York, Calgary, Vancouver and Punjab, India compete for a grand prize of $5000 with special performances by Denmark Punjabi pop artist Anita Lerche, and UK’s Nirmal Sidhu.

Nirmal Sidhu

For more info please visit http://www.vibc.org/

My Olympic Experiance

2010-03-26T15:16:00.000-07:00

So I may be a little late in writing about, "My Olympic Experience," but hey, I've finally recovered from the parties, gold-medal celebrations and working the 14 hour days. I have to admit I was a little skeptical about the Olympics coming to Vancouver at first. All you would hear about was how VANOC was buying up all the marketing platforms (bus shelters, billboards, poster space) and unless you were an Olympic Sponsor you would be lucky if you could cash into the thousands coming to the city.

Nonetheless, my Olympic flame was lit when I saw the burning Olympic torch for the very first time. I don't know what it was about seeing this flame, but an overwhelming sense of pride and emotion came over me. I almost wept like a baby when I first saw it, and trust me, I don't cry easily. To think this flame has been lit since the 1928 Summer Olympics in Amsterdam and for 106 days traveled 45,000 km across Canada was astounding.

With the lighting of the Olympic cauldron came my 14 hour work days. One of the perks of working in media is that you're front and centre to where the action is taking place. Covering Olympic Celebrations sites, watching Canada win it's first gold medal and interviewing artists like Jully Black, Dan Mangan, Alex Cuba and my all time favourite King of Bhangra, Malkit Singh came with the territory.

Canada winning Gold in Mens Hockey was the icing on the cake. I'll be the first to admit, I'm not an avid hockey fan, and I nag my husband every time he puts a Canucks game on when it's not the playoff season, however this game I watched. I think everyone will remember where they were the moment Sydney Crosby shot our winning goal (mind you I had no idea who Syndey Crosby was prior to the games). After the win, like all fellow patriot Canadians, I took to the streets of downtown Vancouver, high-fiving random strangers, breaking out in Oh Canada! and smiling from ear to ear. So proud of my roots and my country for putting on an outstanding Winter Olympic Games that will go down in history, and one that I will be sure to share with my grand kids.

X-mas Faker

2009-12-17T14:27:00.001-08:00

I will readily admit to anyone who asks I am a Christmas faker. A Christmas faker you ask? Well, that's someone who passes off their husband's homemade biscotti and short bread during the holiday season as their own. Why the need to attempt to bake? Well, I guess a few years back I got the idea of how fun it would be to bake treats for my friends. This would allow me to provide them with a packaged personal treat along with their Christmas card. I would research recipes on the net for hours, shop for all the ingredients and then spend hours in the kitchen slaving over rum balls, lemon bars, and cookies gallore.

Now if I knew my kitchen like the back of my hand, there wouldn't really be an issue, but I rarely step foot in this particular room unless it's to eat or warm up my already prepared meals. Yes, roll your eyes, I know... Eventually, I'm going to have to grow up and start cooking for myself, but guess what! I married a gourmet chef, so I got that taken care of too.

Regardless, my girl-friends and I have found a creative way to provide our holiday guests with a variety of home cooked goodies and passing them off as our own. Every year, we get together and create one or two items in mass quantities. Then we come together and distribute these goodies amongst all the participants and in the end you leave with 6 to 7 different Christmas treats. Feel free to take these to office potlucks, holiday parties and package them as a personal gifts... Less work = Less stress, which in turn means you get to enjoy the holidays.

Let's Get Married!

2009-12-11T12:00:00.000-08:00

Jagged Edge's lyrics "Let's Get Married" has been a song I loved from the moment I heard it. However, unlike my classmates in high school I never dreamed of what my wedding would be like or what I would wear. Don't get me wrong, it's not like I didn't care, but I didn't think
wasting so much time on planning a wedding that I didn't know when was going to happen made sense. And I'm glad I stuck to my senses. In the meantime, finding a partner who would love me unconditionally, treat me like a princess (like I deserve) and continue to challenge me to be a better person was more important.

I find many girls who hit their 30's only care about getting married and have even heard outrageous stories about them meeting a guy and getting married after two dates. Two dates! Are you insane? Yes, some say when you meet "The One" you'll know, but what about developing a relationship? In this day in age, where women are pursuing their goals, focusing on their careers and becoming self-sufficient, the pressure to get married shouldn't be as prevalent... but I guess for some, their biological clocks are ticking, their ovaries are crying out and the need to please their parents is a priority.

I was lucky my parents never pressured me, and therefore I had the freedom to do as I please. I cherish the moments I spent with my girl-friends traveling in London, Spain, Italy, Greece, and Jamaica just to name a few. And without years of planning or dreaming of the perfect wedding, I truly believe I had the picture perfect wedding any girl could dream of.

2 weeks away...

2009-10-30T15:35:00.000-07:00

Yikes! Two weeks away... You know, I think I'm doing pretty good compared to most brides two weeks before their wedding, however I have to admit, I'd be a lot more relaxed if the house renovations were completed by now. Poppa G has put his foot down on the contractors, and pretty much told them they need to get all their work done by the weekend, and if it's not finished, he's kicking them outta the house. I mean, it's been 4 weeks already and the entire family is still sharing one bathroom, our house is in disarray, and we can't prepare for the upcoming wedding festivities because the house is covered in dust with furniture stacked on top of one another. And get this, they're putting in carpet as we speak.
But there is always a silver lining. My aunt from California is on her way, and just knowing she'll be at the house to help coordinate the festivities, decorate the house, and help my Mom rearrange her house has put me at ease. Yay for Aunties!

Rich Bride Poor Bride

2009-10-15T20:15:00.000-07:00

So my Fiance and I are super lucky to be selected as a couple to be featured on the Slice network's hit series titled, "Rich Bride Poor Bride." Now, this television program is broadcast in over 45 different countries and we really had to think about this before allowing the camera's into our personal lives to follow us along as we plan our wedding.
I mean planning a wedding is stressful as it is, and now imagine what it would be like with a camera in your face. But since my fiance and I love the camera we couldn't resist when the opportunity came up.
So starting next week, we will begin taping with the producers of Rich Bride Poor Bride and we will also have the opportunity to work with two, yes two amazing wedding planners. Laura and Kelly have been great so far, and we know they're going to make our wedding absolutely fabulous.
With less than a month away I'm starting to get excited...

A month and a half away...

2009-10-07T18:38:00.001-07:00

In a month and a half I will be taking the plunge and tying the knot. Now, this is an exciting time for everyone. The RSVP's are starting to come in, the vendors are confirming, you're sending off your deposit cheques and one begins to count down the days. I am defiantly going through all of those emotions, however on top of planning a 800+ planning, I'm also having to deal with the fact that my parents have decided to renovate the entire house a month and a half before the wedding.
For a matter of fact, as I type this blog I am surrounded by a thick layer of dust that has settled over my computer amongst all the contents from my kitchen. My parents had the brilliant idea upon my return from my relaxing bachelorette party in New York and Aruba that they would like to renovate. Initially, this renovation was supposed to include replacing hardwood floor in three of the rooms. However, I came home to discover that not only were the floors going to be replaced, the entire kitchen was going to be gutted along with the 3 washrooms in the house. The entrance tiles were going to be replaced with granite, the carpet was going to be replaced and the entire stair banister was going to be changed.
Now, I have to admit the construction has been going along at an amazing pace. Within two weeks, the tile in the Kitchen, 2 bathrooms and the entrance have been put down. The hardwood floor is also done... but the kitchen cabinets, washrooms and banister still need to be replaced.
At a time where I should be coming home to unwind and complete my wedding tasks, I come home to complete chaos and a kitchen that I'm not allowed to even step foot in. At a time where I want to declutter my life and prepare my big move to my in-laws, I am forced to roll with the punches and go with the flow.
I'm giving myself another two weeks. If the construction is not complete before Halloween, mark my words I will be pulling my hair out and on the verge of a mental breakdown... well probably not a mental breakdown, but you know what I mean.

Julie & Kevin

2009-07-18T16:42:00.000-07:00

To improve my photographic skills I decided what better way to learn than to shadow a fellow photographer. This led me to contacting my dear friend Pardeep Singh. Pardeep is an amazing photographer. He aims to create unique and intimate images in a creative photo journalistic style. Pardeep's calm demeanor is also key to putting any bride or groom's nerves at ease.

I was lucky enough to act as a fly on the wall, picking up on a few new tricks of the trade. Thank you to Julie and Kevin for allowing me to be a part of their very special day and thank you to Pardeep Singh for allowing this young gal with a passion for photography to learn from the best.

Hannabee

2009-06-24T15:22:00.001-07:00

I promised Baby Hanna a photo shoot the moment she was born. Actually, I took a few maternity pictures of her parents while she was still in Momma's belly and now she's already five months old. She loves the camera and was great to work with. Besides a mini-nap Hannabee was a real trooper.

Mom's The Word

2009-06-11T17:09:00.000-07:00

My friend Heather recently gave birth to a beautiful baby girl by the name of Cinnamon Jane. Cinnamon is just as sweet as her name implies and was easy to photograph.

Between three feedings, two diaper changes, burping, nodding off and a little pee on the black blanket, Cinnamon, Heather and I had a great time Oh! and Cinnamon's buns are to die for :)

Down The Aisle With A Smile

2009-06-06T12:32:00.000-07:00

My dear friends April and Lincoln got married on May 9, 2009 in Lahaina, Maui. Lucky me I brought my SLR and was able to snap a few shots that I may be able to add to my future portfolio. The beautiful ceremony took place on a plantation overlooking the mass ocean. With palm trees swaying, ocean waves crashing and the amazing sun shining down on us, we all had the time of our lives. Congratulations Lincoln & April! Thanks for sharing your very special day with all of us.

409 Front Street

2009-05-20T22:29:00.000-07:00

LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT BEACH HOUSE?
Or maybe it's just time for you to kick off those Minolo's for some Havanna flip-flops.

Whatever the case may be sit back, relax and take in the rays at the Maui Sandy Beach House. Located in Lahaina this beach front house is guaranteed to leave you with life long memories.

I had the amazing opportunity to rent this $9 Million home (yes, it's actually on the market) with a group of 11 friends during my recent visit to the second-largest of the Hawaiian Islands.

We spent a week working on our tans, lounging in the 2 outdoor hot-tubs and cooking up a storm on the 2, yes 2 BBQ's. Not to mention this perfect party house is a 5 minute walk from town, has 6 bedrooms, 6 bathrooms and comfortably accommodates 12.

Who cares if it only cost us $1800 p/night. This prime private property had everything we needed at our fingertips, including the comforts of home... Who am I kidding? I only wish this were my home.

Say Cheese!

2009-05-03T11:22:00.000-07:00

Being an amateur photographer myself, I can really appreciate creativity and skill when it comes to taking pictures. This is why my fiancé and I took our time and researched a lot of photographers in Metro Vancouver before booking one for our wedding. There are a number of talented photographers, however we were looking for someone who also had an amazing personality. I mean, our wedding is a huge day for both of us and we wanted to ensure not only were we comfortable with our photographer, but we also wanted to work with someone who would be willing to work with OUR creative juices.

We decided on Rupi Kambo from Studio Orange Photography. She's young, talented, a graphic designer and just what we were looking for. We had our first lifestyle session with her this past Friday and boy were we blessed with sunshine on Granville Island. I have to admit, it was really fun having our images taken. And Yes... I know... I'm such a poser :)

Life in the Village

2009-03-22T01:35:00.001-07:00

During my one month visit to India I had the opportunity to spend a night in the village at my aunt's house. I must say, spending time in the village is a very humbling experience and it makes one really appreciate the luxuries we have at home.

I found most village people only use the bare essentials they need to get by. For example, every morning my aunt wakes up in the morning and milks her cows. From these cows she is able to make tea for her family, butter, milk and make paneer (cheese) that she would then use for her family's dinner. When it came time to taking a bath, she heated water over a small stove outside and placed some water in bucket for me to use for my bath and another bucket of heated water would be used to wash her clothes by hand.

The electricity comes and goes on a daily basis, however these people don't seem to mind. I know when the power goes out at my house, chaos ensues and unless the electricity comes on, I can't get to work on time because I can't open my garage door, and if it's in the evening, I end up calling it a night and going to bed early.

There is a type of serenity in the village that you don't get to experience in the cities amongst all the crowed bazaars and the constant honking of horns. I guess now I understand why people like living in the Pind (village).

Until the Cows Come Home

2009-03-20T06:47:00.000-07:00

While staying in India, I came to realize two distinct interpretations of the common saying, "Until the cows come home." For instance, you can badger with store owners until the cows come home, and you still won't get your items on time. And now to the more literal meaning of the common saying. Today I noticed a number of cows strolling in the bazaar, so I had to stop and ask my driver what the cows were doing aimlessly is a busy shopping district. To India's millions of Hindus, the cow is a holy animal that cannot be harmed. These weren't the random cows no one wants so they are set free to roam the streets until they die. My driver turned around and told me the cows were shopping too, and when it's time for them to get milked in the evening, they will make their way to their owners house and get milked... So I guess sometimes, the cows do come home.

Getting Tired

2009-03-18T06:58:00.000-07:00

I'm starting to get a little tired of Punjab, India. I'm tired of eating roti, veggie burgers, veggie pizza and veggie chowmein. I'd be on cloud nine with just a few pieces of spicy salmon sashimi and a dragon roll.
I'm also getting tired of all the pushing and shoving. To get anything done here you gotta be aggressive and slightly rude. To get your outfits done at least two days after their original completion date, you gotta threaten them on the phone that you're leaving the country and that you want your deposit back if they don't complete your outfits the next day... and only then you might get them.
When you're at the temple and waiting to pay your respects, you're gonna get shoved and nudged by the locals who don't feel they too should wait patiently in line as everyone else. Ohhhh nooo... they gotta make it to the front and stomp on whoever they need to, to get there, and this all at a place of holy worship.
And going back to shopping... you know you're being ripped off, one for being a foreigner and second because you're too nice, so you gotta stoop to their level and bargain, threaten to leave the store, and walk out with your clothes in hand and the dollar bills you wanted to pay on their counter... This would never fly in Canada... but as I've come to learn, anything goes in India.
I'm sick of all the lieing, the cheating, the beggars, the mosquitoes and the honking horns... the journey home is going to be one long 39 hours, but I look forward to the comforts of home and the comforts of civility. 5 more days...and counting.
Nonetheless, crankiness aside, I've decided I'm going to make the most of these last few days here. I'm going to try and avoid the bazaars and concentrate on all that is beautiful.

Fatehpur Sikri - A Mughal Paradise

2009-03-16T01:52:00.000-07:00

Emperor Akbar's crowing architechural legacy, Fatehpur Sikri was built in 1571 in honour of the famous Sufi saint, Salim Chishti. This magnificent Mughal estate was the capital for 14 years and the city itself is located in Agra. Reasons for abandoning Fatehpur Sikri still remain unclear, but many believe it may have been due to a lack of water supply.

Now when visiting Fatehpur Sikri I would recommend you negotiate a rate with a guide first. I was able to convince a guide to give me a tour of the estate for a mere 200 rupees (equivalent to $5 CAD) and this included my parking fee, my rickshaw ride up and down to Fatehpur Sikri and the entrance fee for 3 individuals. In addition to this, the English speaking guide provided us with a detailed tour and also ensured no one stole our shoes when they were left outside of the entrance.
This Mughal walled city showcases a combination of Islamic, Hindu, Jain and even Catholic inspired architecture with elegant domes and arches, reflecting Akbar's secular vision as well as his style of governance. Even today, the access to the city iis provided by a straight road Akbar built, then lined with exotic bazaars. It leads visitors through the Agra Gate to the triple-arched Naubat Khana, where the emperor's entry used to be announced.

Ever since Akbar's childlessness was ended by the remarkable prediction of Salim Chishti in 1568, the saint's tomb has become a mecca for those in search of a miricle. Inside the equisite marble tomb those who make a wish, tie a small cotton thread on the screen around the tomb, and leave with the confidence that the saint will make their wish come true.

The Beauty of the Taj Mahal

2009-03-14T03:37:00.000-07:00

Who would imagine the perfect proportions and exquisite craftsmanship of the amazing Taj Mahal cost nearly 41 million rupees, 500 kilos of gold and 20,000 workers almost 22 years to complete in 1653.

This fine example of Mughal architecture was built by the Mughal emperor Shah Jahan in memory of his favourite wife, Mumtaz Mahal. History states the emperor was griefstricken when his third wife died during the birth of their fourteenth child. Can you imagine having fourteen kids! Sheesh! Anyways, Shah Jahan's grief and love for Mumtaz was his inspiration for the Taj Mahal, hence the significance for love it holds today.

The Taj Mahal is open to the public Sunday through Thursday from 6am - 7pm. Get there early, as the blistering heat usually lasts between noon and 5pm. Also, take note that residents of India only pay 20 rupees entrance fee and foreigners are asked to cough-up a whopping 500 rupees each. My parents both passed as residents, but once the attendees got a look at me in my sketcher sneakers, t-shirt and Bermuda shorts I was asked to go back and pay the 500 rupees. On the bright side, you get a free bottle of water and socks to pull over your shoes when going through the Taj :)

Nonetheless, without a doubt the Taj Mahal is one of the most elegant and harmonious buildings in the world and well worth a visit. And let's not forget this momument is listed as one of the seven wonders of the world.

Yikes! Mosquitos!

2009-03-13T22:53:00.000-07:00

Ouch! They got me again! The one thing I could do without while travelling in India is defiantly the mosquitoes. These buggers have a taste for my Canadian blood and regardless of what I do they still find a way to latch on and bite. And I'm not kidding... In one day I had over 12 bites while standing outside for a period of 10 minutes while on the phone... thanks Gurj. And don't get me wrong, I've also become accustomed to sleeping under the covers, creating a breathing hole and sweating to death under the heavy quilt... but even then the buggers find a way to get to the only flesh peeking out of the covers. I don't know how many times they may have bit my right hand, but this morning it has ballooned to double the size of my left hand. It's numb, red and blistering hot. Off Skintastic and any other mosquito repellent doesn't seem to work... now my only hope is the swelling go down in the next few hours or else I may have to go visit an Indian doctor in the village.

Shopping in India 101

2009-03-08T06:46:00.001-07:00

Every Indian bride comes to the mother country with a mission. A mission to purchase her wedding outfit, her reception outfit, her dowry clothing, jewellery to match all of her clothing in addition to a few accessories. One would think since all these Indian outfits are made in India finding what you want would only take a matter of time. Unfortunately, this is not the case. Upon entering an Indian store you are asked to take a seat. You’re not free to roam the clothing racks and shelves to look at what you might like as one would in the Western world. You are seated and a team of three men, yes men, will begin showing you clothing items one by one...

Now after seeing twenty different pieces of clothing your head begins to spin and it is at this time the salesman orders you a cup of chai, coke, sandwiches or samosas. Take advantage of this hospitality as you’ll need the time to refocus. But stay away from their water, you don’t want to get sick. As the salesmen continue to show you items that are of no interest to you for kicks, get the guys to wrap the sari’s on themselves to show you how they would look when you’re wearing one. These men can tie a sari in a matter of minutes. Next, attempt to explain to them what you’re looking for... tell them what you like about certain pieces and what you don’t like. For example, velvet embroidery is really in fashion right now, but I can’t stand it, and I made that quite clear, not to show me any items with velvet. They get the point, but sometimes it can take you up to three hours in one store to finally find something you like.

Take pictures. If you’re got magazines or images of clothing, take them with you and they may be able to help you find what you’re looking for, or recreate it from scratch. This is only worth your while if you’re in India for three weeks, as it can take up to 16 days to make a custom made outfit. To complete my wedding shopping I’ve traveled to Delhi, Ludhiana, Chandigarh, Phugwara and Barnala. And guess what? I’m still not done. I’ve placed orders for my wedding and reception outfits, in addition to my finance’s wedding outfit, my brothers’ kurtas, and ramals for the temple. I’m just crossing my fingers that they turn out the way I want. I guess we’ll just have to wait and see and have faith in the Indian retailers.

Please use Dipper at Night!

2009-03-02T02:32:00.001-08:00

India... is a world of it's own. From the moment you step foot out of the airport, you know the comforts from home are a far off memory. Time and urgency are of little importance unless you're driving, and driving in India is terrifying. I've become accustomed to the blaring horns, the livestock on the road and the game of chicken we tend to play, but more importantly, I've realized everyone here has a purpose. From the woman who comes by and picks up your garbage every day, to the chai walla's who pour countless cups of chai a day, to the young children who latch onto you when you're shopping in the market, asking for money... everyone here is doing what they can to survive with little or no means.

Motherland... Here I Come!

2009-02-24T15:38:00.000-08:00

Well... I've decided to do it! 26 years later, and I'm going back to the Motherland. As you can probably tell, I'm not jumping for joy. Why? Well, the toilet situation kinda makes me uncomfortable and I can't stand creepy crawly bugs. But I've decided to make the most of it and explore the rich beauty and culture India has to offer. Mission number 1: Find a Wedding Outfit, Mission number 2: Don't get sick, Mission number 3 : Take lots of pictures and enjoy every moment of it. As my Dad says, "India is what it is. Go with an open mind and you'll enjoy it." Easy for him to say... he catches flies with his hands ;)

Rogers Wireless Present's VIBC 2009 City of Bhangra Festival February 12 - 21

2009-01-22T11:51:00.000-08:00

City of Bhangra, North America's Largest Bhangra Festival
9 days of music, dance, and excitement from February 12-21, 2009

Vancouver, BC – January 21, 2009 – Experience the sights and sounds of Bhangra when the streets come alive from February 12-21, 2009 as Rogers Wireless presents the City of Bhangra Festival. The festival, organized by the Vancouver International Bhangra Celebration (VIBC) Society, encourages cultural exploration and community participation through a diverse series of events highlighting the Northern Indian art form of Bhangra.

"Each year we aim to push the boundaries about what Bhangra is and how it is performed,” says Sukhi Ghuman, Director of the VIBC Society. "This year we're celebrating our fifth year of operation. We're continuing to showcase events that bring Bhangra to an entirely new level. We’ve taken a form of dance and music created hundreds of years ago in celebration of the harvest in Punjab and brought it to Vancouver and made it accessible to people of all cultures."

This year two events, Transfusion and rePercussion, are being co-presented by the Cultural Olympiad: TransFusion brings an eclectic blend of contemporary and traditional folk dance styles together in this unique dance production. Set in the multimedia den of light and sound, the footwork and visuals span the subcontinent of India, reaching as far north as Trinidad and Japan, blurring the borders between cultures as well as folk, classical and contemporary music and dance.

rePercussion is led by Sal Ferreras, music educator and producer who explores percussion and folk drumming, represented by of a variety of cultures that make up Vancouver. This exhibition will include performances by a number of multicultural drum troupes and Bhangra dhol drums.

The festival concludes with eight of North America’s best Bhangra teams competing for the $5000 first prize at the Coast Capital Bhangra Competition at Queen Elizabeth Theatre. International Bhangra superstars, Heera, Apna Sangeet and H-Dhami will perform.

VIBC Society
Since 2005, the not-for-profit Vancouver International Bhangra Celebration Society (VIBC) has presented events to entertain and educate all communities about Bhangra. The Society’s vision is to embrace the spirit of celebration, generosity and community that is Bhangra. The VIBC is dedicated to spreading the universal rhythm of Bhangra and welcoming people from all cultures to enjoy the beats of this beautiful art form.

For more information about the Festival, please visit http://www.vibc.org/

Why So FOLK?

2008-11-10T16:47:00.000-08:00

The NEXT Bhangra Competition
November 10, 2008 by Sukhi Ghuman, VIBC Media and Public Relations Coordinator

This year’s NEXT Bhangra Competition brought out the best junior dance teams Metro Vancouver has ever seen. Audiences were wowed by nine teams from Burnaby, North Delta, Vancouver, Surrey, Abbotsford and Lynden, Washington as they danced their hearts out at the Bell Centre for Performing Arts. A big thank you to all the teams that performed at NEXT, without the teams this is never possible.
MC’s Angelina Rai from RJ 1200AM and Pavan Avinashi had the crowd hyped from the get go. Best of all, audience members came prepared to cheer on their favourite teams with custom made poster signs to show their support. The crowd was electrifying and the dancers definitely fed off that energy.

We opened the show with the rumble of the dhol from Dhol Nation Academy that was followed with back-to-back, non-stop Bhangra action from the competing teams. After the scores were tallied, it was Lynden’s Lethal Vibe that took home first place and the North Delta Senior Girls came in second in the high school division. However NEXT history was made in the club team division. Abbotsford’s PCBCA came out on top and left with the coveted first place trophy, and both PCAC and Punjabi Folk Academy tied for second place. Congratulations to all the teams and thank you from all of us at the VIBC Society for showcasing your talents.

Both Ka Ka Canadian and Vancouver’s very own, Bombay Sapphire also gave stellar performances, but it was the Shan-E-Punjab Little Stars that stole our hearts. Audience members applauded the efforts of these kids ranging from grades two to four with a standing ovation.

A big thanks to Lucky’s Video and Photography from Gurk Bains for capturing the special moments of the night. And a special shout out to all of our judges for taking on the daunting task of judging our teams; Preet Sandhu-Bal, Rik Barmi, Jora Nijjar, Mandeep Patrola, and Sonia Basi-Toor.

Toxins Be Gone!

2008-10-19T10:56:00.000-07:00

So I decided it was about time I rid my body of all the toxins I've accumulated over the years. I'm on day 6 of my 12 day Herbal detox and I must say I'm proud for coming so for. Besides not being able to eat any dairy, carbs besides brown rice, and absolutely no wine I've been holding up fairly well. The occasional headaches from the caffeine withdrawal of my regular chai tea lattes is expected. And swallowing the 6 large pills before breakfast and dinner can be a bit much... but guess what?! Only 6 more days and I'll be toxin free.

Photography

2008-10-07T23:11:00.000-07:00

Say Cheese! I've had an innate interest in photography for as long as I can remember. It most likely comes from my Father who continues to purchase top-of-line camera's every two years. This has allowed me to lay claim to his old camera's and document my life. I've got tons and tons of albums, and thank-god for Digital as I was running out of storage space.

As of a few months ago I decided this was a hobby I would like to explore further. I signed up for a 10 week intro to Digital Photography class that I really enjoyed. Now that the class is over, I have this desire to take it a step further and explore with Digital editing. I'll only improve if I continue to take pictures and I guess it doesn't hurt to show some ;)

Sex and the City

2008-05-31T11:20:00.000-07:00

If the boys can swoon over Transformers, Iron Man and the return of Indian Jones, then we girls will certainly celebrate the much anticipated release of the Sex and the City movie by raising our martini glasses.

The movie has become a world wide gal-pal event as women come together to celebrate the reunion of Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte and let's not forget Miranda.

What's not to love? New York City, Prada and Jimmy Choos?

But most importantly, these women represent hope, faith, love and friendship that withstands all.

I too will be raising my Spankini cocktail amongst girl-friends, as we dress up as our favourite characters and watch the movie tonight... Who will I dress up as? Well, Samantha of course!

Sooke, There It Is!

2008-04-09T13:29:00.000-07:00

Who would have thought a weekend getway to Sooke was exactly what the doctor ordered. On the secluded west coast of Vancouver Island lies one of the Pacific Northwest's best kept secrets: Sooke, British Columbia.

Having taken a number of weekend getaways to Victoria, I was looking for something a little more serene. A place where I could kick off my socks, turn off my cell phone and bask in the beauty and vitality of mother nature.

As we get older, the idea of spending an evening in a cramped night club, getting drunk and being hit on by random guys tends to loose it's lustre, so a few friends and I decided to head over to the island to celebrate April Reyes 30th birthday instyle. We rented this amazing 3-bedroom house overlooking the Olympic Peninsula and set on 10 acres of private land.

No television, no emails and best of all, no neighbours. Sipping Savingion Blanc while soaking in the hot tub at the cliff's edge and being greeted by Bambi and his friends was obviously a bonus. But most importantly, I was amongst friends. We dined on great food (it helps when your boyfriend's a gourmet chef), played games, went on nature hikes, read books and enjoyed eachother's company...

Sooke, There it Is!!!